Fast forward to now and all I hear is that I need to stop dating white women that's why I have problems meeting a good women. I used to question maybe that's it maybe that's why i keep meeting these shitty women. Ive dated Mexicans women all kinds of women. I've never dated a black women I have slept with a couple haha but never dated. Its Amazing the looks I get when I was with my ex of 3 years she is a tall beautiful blonde hazel eyed white women. The looks we would get out together would make me laugh . People automatically assume black men date white women for some type of gain which is true for some guys but that's every race. It would be that particular guy that does that the race of the women really doesn't matter. For me that is what I'm attracted to but I am attracted to any good looking women . I think at times black women write black men off that usually date white women because they may be "white washed" or ignorant shit like that. I also hear that black men get away with more with white women that is false ive seen other races put up with way more bullshit haha and I love the fact that people act like that is not the case. I have seen the other side my best friend and his parents hated it and didn't like he only dated black women but they always where Nice to me . The bigotry exhibited still to this day shocks me that people will be nice but have a problem with dating outside your race. When I was with my daughter mother who is German and Cuban but shes as pale as ghost black women used to give her all kinda dirty looks and when we had our daughter people have the "mixed baby" syndrome. I love women haha don't get me wrong but I used to get hit on all the time black women but now i couldn't get one to talk to me and I'm a very good looking man. Why that is I don't know but I feel that alot of people walk down the same street keep getting lost but wont take any directions. Walking around lost is not the way to go but this is what some people do .
My daughter is a product of this and I love it I never thought god I want a mixed baby because there so cute but I loved her mother and wanted to create a life with her. I do see alot of women who have that "mixed baby" syndrome they see how cute they are and they want one, kinda like they used to want that pretty barbie. People say everyone will soon be mixed but is that a bad thing ? That is a sign of the times that we are not seeing color but just a person. I cant speak for every-man some of black Friends don't date black women because they are intimated or they are ratchet whatever stereotypes they use. Not me and never will be its just whats usually around me I'm not going to go seek a specific type of women I just go for whats in arms reach. So whether you like it or not welcome to the new America but I will touch on this topic again let me know what you guys think. I personally am I dark skin male so im attracted to things lighter then me haha I mean I love being dark doesn't make me less of a man or racist against my if my girl is dark as hell like I am. To be honest do I see my myself marrying and non African american women yes but theres nothing wrong with that but I wouldn't rule it out. I love being black and all the perks it comes with everyone thinks we are all good athletes and have big wieners haha those are some perks when it comes to interracial I love the mix of cultures. I was eating German food and Mexican food real authentic stuff. I love the mesh of cultures especially over love . There will be a part two where I will strictly talk about the Black man/white girl relationship and what we deal with . I leave you guys with this open your heart not with your eyes but with your mind. Thia is what love creates just so happens to be from a interracial relationship my little princess Braelynn Isabella Jones. Its great to love who you want and if that's in your race that's fine just love yourself no matter what color so you can eventually love someone else.
